But I really think it’s all about how it’s presented to women. Jeannie Mai is one of three women hosts on a show called “The Real” where they talk about women stuff. Yesterday, they had a discussion about being submissive in a relationship or a marriage. Mai’s part of the discussion is what I want to talk about. So on the video below, fast forward to 8:37, which is when Mai starts to gives her opinion on submission.
Listen to her kings, even the most dominant, alpha type women want to be able to submit to her man. All women want this but are afraid to submit to someone who might take advantage of them. The best part of this is when she broke what happens when you don’t give a man the chance to lead. It’s going to cause problems because it’s instilled in men to be the leaders and the women are supposed to follow us.
Another problem that usually goes under the radar is other women putting down women who don’t mind being submissive. Don’t believe me? Just listen to the other women on the show. They were saying there shouldn’t be labels and both parties should be on equal footing. Mai told them that she runs a business and has employees that she is oversees. The last thing she wants to do is come home and be that dominate figure.
Some women feel like being submissive is not having a say on what happens in their relationship or marriage. But the way Mai explained this is really how a lot of men feel, but some of them don’t know how to verbalize it. Now let me say this, it’s not a women’s job to make you feel like a man in a relationship or marriage. That job belongs to you, and only you. So what do you think kings? Do you agree with Mai’s opinion on being submissive or do you have a different view on this subject?