So if a woman you like hesitates when you try to set a definite date, you have two ways of dealing with this. The first way is you takeaway the date offer from her. For example, let’s say you try to set a date for Friday night and she agrees, but wants you to call to confirm to make sure everything is good. You should never call to confirm, that defeats the purpose of setting a definite date.
I’m telling you right now, if you agree to a call to confirm request from her, it’s highly likely that she will stand you up. Ask yourself this question, why am I willing to let someone hold my Friday hostage with the possibility of her saying she can’t make the date? The second way of dealing with this is to put it on her. If she is hesitant and can’t make up her mind, you tell her to get in touch with you when she is available and then you walk away.
If her interest is high, she will either back track and agree to a definite date on the spot or she will get back in touch with you a few days later. The other side to this is she might not reach back out to you but that’s okay. At least now you know where you stand and you’re not wasting anymore time pursuing her. So remember kings, there are two ways to handle a woman who is hesitant when it comes to setting up a definite date.
If her interest is high, she will make it easy to set the date up. If her interest is low, she is going to hesitate but you know how to handle this now. Like I said above, don’t let any woman hold you hostage with a call and confirm request. Always pull the offer and put it on her to let you know when she is available then walk away.