But if you really sit back and think about it, why do you want her back? Some men will bring up the time element, which means they have put years into the relationship. With time invested, some men dread that they potentially will have to start all over with someone. So in their minds, it’s easier to just try to get back with the woman who they have been with.
But you have to look at why the relationship went bad in the first place. Even if you are able to get her back together, are things going to change or be the same? For example, I have a friend who has been chasing her ex girlfriend for a few years. When they first broke up, I told him that he needs to move and let her go do her thing.
He told me that he is not cool with her going to date other people just for them to get back together. But what he didn’t realize is he had no say in the matter. If she chooses to go this route, there is nothing he could do about it because they are not together anymore. When I ask him why does he want her back, he never has a reason other than I just do.
The reason he wants her back is due to his ego. When the breakup first happened, a lot of people were making jokes about the situation and rubbing it in his face. He only wants her back just to be like “I told you I was going to get her back”. His ego is getting the best of him and can setup him for failure and eventually another heartbreak.
So remember kings, you have to be real with yourself when thinking about wanting your ex girlfriend back. Is it worth the time or effort to even try to get her back? While you are putting in time chasing after her, you could potentially miss out on the woman who could replace her.