The reason why their value goes down is because they now considered past their prime. For example, let’s say you buy a 2020 BMW. At the moment, it’s one of the top of the line cars that you can get. But as the years go by, you have to do maintenance to keep the car in good condition. Meanwhile, there is another BMW that’s been coming out year after year.
As the years past, the more older and the less valuable your car becomes. Women are the exact same way that cars are. During the ages of 20-28, women are in the prime of their life when it comes to their beauty. After that time frame, that’s when you start to see it head down here from there. Once a woman comes out of her prime, that’s when you start to see them apply pressure in the relationships there are in.
Or the single women who is dating, who always asks, so what are your intentions with me? When they hit that wall, now they can’t be as reckless as they were in their 20’s. When they hit 30, now it’s time to get serious for them. Women innately know that the clock is ticking as they get older. That’s why women start to hit you with the relationship questions after 3 months of dating.
I’m telling you this because us men don’t know how good we have it. While their beauty is declining, men are rising above them. When we hit 30, a lot of us are smarter than we were in our 20’s. We are also making the most money we have ever made in life. The more stability you can bring to a woman’s life, the more valuable you become.
So remember king, all women will run into the wall at some point in her life. It doesn’t matter if she is single, in a relationship, or married, they all will experience this. When a older woman is putting pressure on you to get a relationship, I hope I have gave you some clarity of why she is doing this.
Hello King. I have a few questions regarding this post. Firstly, why are 21-28 a woman’s “peak” years of beauty? Are there any examples that back the decline of a woman’s beauty after this arbitrary period? Is the beauty you refer to in this post purely physical? Secondly, in your opinion, are there any other factors that play a part in why a woman of a certain age may pressure a man to commit?
Because those are the years that women start to really start to evolve physically. I don’t have an study cases but a current example of someone hitting the wall is Ayesha Curry. Just listen to her on the Red Table Talk with Jada Pickett Smith. She realized that she was getting zero male attention except from her husband. It’s not what she is use to experiencing, so she is having a hard time dealing with this. And yes, I am referring to women’s beauty in this post. For women, time plays a big part in the push for commitment from a man. Most women want to have kids, but that becomes harder the older she gets. For women, dating is like having a lottery ticket. If the man is a winner, she is going to try to cash in as quickly as she can. If he’s not, she is going to move on to find the potential winner.
I think the example of Ayesha Curry is a false equivalency because it is my opinion that she is no longer receiving male attention because of the respect that her husband’s peers and males that have the ability to attract her attention have for her situation. It is human nature to want to be desired by the opposite sex, no matter what age or martial status. However, I do agree with you in that the attention from her husband should be enough, and red table talk may not have been the best platform for that type of transparency. Take for example, beautiful women like Gabrielle Union and Angela Basset who are well into their 40s+and 1:are still very beautiful and youthful in appearance and 2: were older when they decided to have children. My point is, not all black women are monolithic. It is not the sole desire of every woman to bear children by a certain age. In this day and age , medical advancements and new approaches to gender roles make it possible for women to pursue careers and personal goals prior to having children. It is not fair to group all women in their late 20s+ into a category that is baby-crazed and awfully aging. The saying “Black don’t crack” exists for a reason.
We will have to agree to disagree on the Ayesha Curry thing. I agree that Gabrielle Union and Angela Basset look good for their age. But they looked even better when they were younger. I never said that all women wanted kids, I said most women do. Also this is not entirely a black woman thing, because other races of women go through it as well. Who said that women in their late 20s are baby crazed and awfully aging? There are a lot of beautiful women in the 30s, but the point still remains that she is not in her prime of beauty anymore.