Because a lot of men see this on the regular, they try to do the same thing in the real world. The problem with this is men are now starting to realize the stuff they see on TV isn’t reality. This is when a lot of men realize that finding the one is really just a myth. What you guys have to understand is you have to mold the woman of your choosing to how you want her to be.
This is a concept that is hard for women to understand because that is not how they were programmed by society. As men, our thought process about finding the one is basically through beauty. For example, there have been times where I was crushing on a woman and automatically started thinking that she is the one.
When you see a woman who meet all of you physical requirements, you can find yourself projecting your interest onto her. But when you logically think about this, it’s sounds crazy because you don’t know this woman at all. But that’s how us men can get caught up in this myth of finding the one. For women, it’s even more crazier because of how they think about things.
You ever heard a woman say that she is going to wait until Mr. Right finds her? They really believe that they can just sit around and the man that they consider “the one” will just walk right through the door. For men and women, there is no such thing of waiting for “the one” you have get out there and find that person.
So remember kings, don’t get caught up in the hype about finding “the one”. Contrary to what you might see on TV, understand stand that all of this is just a myth. Just know that any woman that you decided to be with, it’s wasn’t something that was destined to happen. You had to go out and find her to make everything go in your favor.