The reason why is because depending on how the relationship ended, you guys will eventually get back in touch with each other. If your ex is the one who called off the relationship, she should be the one to reconnect with you. Now I know for some of you, breakups can be hard, especially if you have developed an emotional attachment with her.
To move past this, you have to go no contact and move on with you life. This will be easier said than done for some of you, but this is how you have to be. But like I said earlier, you don’t need closure because she will eventually reach out too you. One thing that you shouldn’t do when you reconnect with her is bring up the past.
For example, let’s say your ex did some things in the relationship that you felt was very disrespectful to you. As a man, there are times where you just take the hit on the chin and blame yourself. Even though you don’t forget about what she did, you shouldn’t hold it against her. If you hadn’t heard from her in months then she reaches out, you need to start out with a clean slate. Usually when men want relationship closure, it’s all about consoling their bruised ego.
So remember kings, don’t worry about getting closure from a failed relationship. The best thing to help you move on is to replace her with other women. If or when she reaches back out, don’t hold the things she did in the past over her head. The lessons you learned from the mistakes with her should help you with the new women in your life.