Even if when express how we feel, we get told to toughen up. This also goes for the times that we make mistakes as well. But the key to making sure you don’t make those mistakes again is recognizing them and learning from them. For example, I’m sure a lot of you have been in situations where you felt like a woman used you.
When women use us, it’s usually for our money and our time. So if you feel like you are putting out a lot of time and money and don’t see any returns, you only have yourself to blame. But this where recognizing your mistakes and learning from them comes into play. You have to realize that a woman is always going to put her betterment before yours.
So if you continue spend time and money on her and you aren’t satisfied with the results, she isn’t going to change anything. Making her ante up is next best thing you can do. A lot men let this type of stuff happen to them because of their fear of rejection. But that type of mindset will get you ran over when it comes dating or life in general.
When something like this happens, you should’ve learned from what happened and put your terms out there from the beginning. The more you can learn from the things you have done wrong, the more confident of a man you will become. So remember kings, you should always want to recognize the mistakes you have made and learn from them.
As a man, you should always want to be great at anything you do. The only way to achieve that success is through practice and failure. Once you figure out why you are failing, you can start to practice those good habits that helps benefit you at the end of the day.