Some men who see their friends and family members in relationships and feel like they want to be apart of that as well. Some men might feel like they are missing out, which really doesn’t make sense. Fellas, you should only want to get into a relationship when you are ready to do so. Another reason why a man might need someone else to validate him is due to their lifestyle.
You guys should already know that if you are single, you should never get hung up over one woman. This goes for your ex girlfriend as well and I don’t care how much you think she means to you. If you are sitting at home complaining not participating in life, then of course you are going to need someone to validate you.
The reason why is because you have associated your happiness being with that woman. So if that woman doesn’t want to be with anymore, where does that leave your self esteem? You should always strive to meet new people and live life. You never want to feel like someone has any type of power over you. If you think that you need a particular woman to validate you, then you are giving up the power you have.
So remember kings, you should never need someone else to validate you. Those types of attachments do nothing but cause unhappiness and sorrow. Change up the way you are doing things and start participating in life. I’m telling you this from experience, it will be the best thing you ever could do for yourself.