This is especially true when you know that you have made changes in your life. Once I started to understand women more, there was certain women that I wanted another crack at because I knew things would be different. There were times where I did get a chance to redeem myself with a woman I messed up with. But the ones that didn’t come back, I had to learn to let go and move on.
For you guys that are in relationships and marriages, there are things that happened to you that you will never forget. But the key is that you don’t hold that against the woman that you are currently with. Because if you don’t let go of the things that happened to you in past relationships, it will affected the current situation that you are in now.
When talking about having to let go of the past, I’m not just talking about the failures you had with certain women. I’m also talking about life failures as well. I always believed that the failures you go through in life will help build strength and character. Situation like when you were offered a certain job after your manager passed over you the first time around when the position was open.
It takes strength to still take that position even though you thought you deserved it the first time around. There are some people who can’t let what happen the first time around go, so would decline the position just to be spiteful.
So remember kings, one of the best things you can do for yourself is to let go of the past. As you start to embark into new situations in your life, it’s wise to remember the stuff you went through to get there. But you don’t want to let it overcome you to the point where you are turning down opportunities just too be spiteful.