At that age, I didn’t feel like I needed to be sociable because there was so many other ways to meet women. Like I have stated before, I was in the club all the time. But things changed once my relationship with my ex ended. Now I’m in my 30’s and don’t really care to hit the club like that anymore. So now I had to start getting women out and about which I wasn’t that strong at.
One of the main things I had to tell myself when I started to be more sociable was you can’t be afraid. Starting a conversation without knowing the person and not knowing how they would respond was nerve wrecking. But once I started to talk, I realized that people are very friendly. For me, it starts with a simple good morning and it went on from there.
When you are trying to improve your social skills, start out speaking to everybody. It doesn’t matter if they are big or small, good looking or not, speak to them. You want to get into the habit of speaking to everyone and being able to startup a conversion with anyone. This will help you when you run across a very attractive woman.
If you speak to people everywhere you go, talking to her will be a walk in the park. Now let me caution you and say that you will run into some women who could be very rude to you. If that happens, you have to realize that something could be going on in her life that she is upset about . When a woman is rude when I speak to her, I never blame myself.
When I sense that she has an attitude, I usually say something smart like, “well I guess you’re not having a good day” with a smirk on my face. Sometimes a woman might crack a smile and sometimes she will still be stone faced. The point is, nothing no one does should move you off your center.
So remember kings, the best way to improve your social skills is by speaking to everyone you come across. The practice that you get will payoff for you when it comes to speaking to women out in public. It will become easy for you to strike up a conversation with her without any hesitation. This will ultimately prepare you for the woman that you want and deserve in your life.