But the problem is, he doesn’t want to be a in relationship, he only wants to have sex with these women. I immediately knew what he was doing wrong when it came to these women. He would go on dates with these women and talk about career goals and her inspirations and what she wants to do in her life. He would call and text these women to just have casual conversation. Fellas, I tell you guys all the time that you have to be upfront with women in your intentions.
If all you want is sex, you have to make that be known from the beginning. If a woman knows that all you want is sex, two things are going to happen. She will put you in the category where she will only call when she wants sex from you. The second thing she will do is just cut you off completely because that’s not what she is looking or she already has someone in that role.
I told the guy who messaged me that he gave of the vibe that he was looking to be a relationship. The main problem with him was he wasn’t being truthful with his intentions because he feared what the outcome may be. He knew that if he would made it known that he just wanted sex, some of these women in his life wouldn’t be interested in him.
So remember kings, don’t give off boyfriend vibes when you know that you only want sex. Like I said above, you have to make you intention known from the beginning. I understand not wanting to losing certain women due to only wanting sex but it is what it is. You can’t get upset if women want to be with you when you are doing things that make her think that you want to be lead to be in a relationship.