You have to get to a happy place first before you start dating again. For example, a lot of men become cold when a break up happens. You start telling yourself the things that you won’t put up with now that you are single. I can attest to this because I was at this place as well after a breakup. How I got to that happy place was I had to first looked back at all the things that happened in the relationship that made me upset.
I complained about a lot of things that she didn’t do and I definitely wasn’t emotionally centered. I had to realize that she can only get away with the stuff that I was upset about if I let her. Once I understood that, I went ahead and accepted responsibility for the relationship not working out. Then I started to get into different hobbies that would create self-improvement. I have learned that when you occupy your time by improving yourself, dating becomes easier.
So remember kings, you have to get to a happy place before you start dating again. This is one of the most important steps in regards to becoming the best version of yourself. Regardless of what happened in your relationship, take ownership of it failing. Once you mastered this, it will take a lot for someone to get you back in a bad place again.