I’m sure some of you have had a woman tell you that she knows you just as well as you know yourself. She really doesn’t know you like she thinks she does. The thing is, she has just gotten real comfortable with the routine you set for her. You have to always remember that a woman is always trying to figure you out. For example, the beginning of the courtship of a woman is very important when it comes to setting the routine.
If you start off answering her calls and texts messages within the hour of her reaching out, she is going to always expect that from you. But if you are inconsistent with the timeframe of when you respond to phone calls and text messages, she will always expect that from you. The moment you switch up your routine with a woman, it will set off an alarm in her head.
This is why it’s so important for you to already know what type of routine you want to put in play. A lot of men run into trouble with routine when they get into relationships and marriages. Most men in relationships or marriages have established their routine with their women so long ago since they first met their woman. But when a woman has been in your life for a significant period of time, she will get bored with you.
In this case, you will have to switch up a little just to throw her off. So if she is use to you coming home at a certain time everyday, go do something else a couple days out the week and watch her reaction. She will questioning and complain about this because the routine was broken, but it gets her intrigued with what you are doing again.
So remember kings, you want to establish your routine with a woman at the beginning. You have to know how you want to have everything setup from the beginning. Like I said above, when you break your routine with her, it’s going to set off an alarm in her head. As you get into relationships or marriages, there will be times where you will have to break your routines on purpose. This will keep your women more interested and intrigued in you.