When you are in a long term relationship or marriage with someone, it’s just not that easy to just walk away. A lot of times, the woman that you are in a long term relationship or marriage with i has been around for a long time. Even though things could be bad in the relationship or marriage, there’s still a part of you that cares about the woman.
For example, the man I was messaging said that he has wanted to end his relationship for the last 5 months. When I asked what is holding him back, he said that it’s the fear of not finding what he is looking for. He also expressed concern about getting back into the dating game after being away from it for so long.
These are valid concerns because ending your relationship or marriage for the unknown can make you hesitant to do so. But I told him that if he is not happy, there is no reason to hold himself hostage with a woman that he doesn’t want to be with. The reason why I say it takes strength to end a long term relationship or marriage is dealing with her face afterwards.
9 times out of 10, she won’t be expecting this to happen. She might cry, she might go into rage, or she might just shutdown all together. You have to remain centered in your emotions because hers is going to be all over the place. As a man, once you make this decision, you have stick with it and mean it. So remember kings, it’s definitely requires a lot of strength to end a long term relationship or marriage.
Like I said above, there is no easy way to do this but your happiness should come first. You have to remember that being centered when you do this is important due to how she might react to the news. There is a reason why a lot of people choose to remain in relationships or marriages that they don’t want to be in. That’s why I can respect a man who knows that the relationship or marriage is over and has the strength to end it.