Listen, there are a lot of men who think they can control what women do. They think that can control who they talk too and who they see. So it comes to no surprise to me when guys lose their minds when they find out their girl was meeting or talking to other men. I learned very quickly that women are going to do what they want whether you care about it or not.
Which is why I always say that you shouldn’t really care about what they are doing. For example, let’s say you find out the woman that you are dealing with is messing with someone else. If you are single, you really shouldn’t care about that because you should have other women as well.
Now if you are in a relationship and this happens, you have to cancel her. Don’t ever go looking for evidence like going through her phone or reading her emails and text messages. What is done in the dark will always come out in the light.
So remember kings, you shouldn’t be worrying about things that you can’t control. This stops you from driving yourself crazy and it helps you to not get so attached to her. Once you stop worrying about stuff you can’t control, it will allow you to focus on other things.