The reason why I said that is you don’t want the woman or women you are dealing with to assume anything. Women will test you to see if you are just like the other men that she is dating. So if she gets the friend vibe from you, she will deal with you accordingly. A lot of men are afraid to make their intentions known due to the fact that she might not feel the same way you do.
So they try to be a woman’s friend because they feel like that’s the safe thing to do. For example, when I was in my early 20’s, I had a girl that I was thought I was just friends with. But as time went on, I found myself liking her a lot. I remember telling her how much I liked her, but the feeling wasn’t mutual.
After she made that known to me, I just settled to just be her friend. In the end, she ended up meeting a guy who didn’t like how close we were. So naturally she cut me off and now she is married to guy and we haven’t spoken in years. At the time I was pissed off, but I realized why this happened to me once I got older.
Once she told me that the feeling wasn’t mutual, I should’ve let her know that I can’t just be friends with her. And once that is said, I was supposed to move on with my life. But at that time, I was soft and didn’t want to her out of my life. Ironically, she ended up removing me out of her life anyways, which was a great learning experience for me.
So remember kings, the best way to stay out of the friend zone is to make your intentions known from the beginning. There will be times where the woman might not feel the same as you. You have to be okay with it and move on to the next.