I didn’t realize that being so available to talk to her whenever she calls or text was lowering her interest. This lead to her starting to put me on the back burner for another guy that she couldn’t spend as much time with. Now that I’m older, I have a lot of things going in my life so I don’t have time to text or talk on the phone all day.
But whenever I made time for a woman, they would try to take make the most out of it. A women’s main goal in dating is to get as much information about you as they can. So that’s why they will call and text you a lot at the beginning, but you can’t play into that. I’m going to tell you how you should handle this. What you have to do is let her know that you are busy, but you definitely want to see her.
After that you set a definite date and then you don’t talk to her until it’s time to meet up.. What this will do is make her curious about what you have going on in your life. You should also always answer her text messages later. Me personally, I would wait 3 to 4 hours before I would respond back to a woman’s text message.
If she already knows you are a busy person, so won’t feel any type of way about how long it takes you to respond. It’s your job to get her to understand that you are busy, so it will make her feel special when you do devote time to her. You should rinse, repeat, and recycle this with all the women you are dating.
So remember kings, you don’t want to be so available when it comes to the women that you are dating. You want to establish that you are a busy person, so she will appreciate the time that you make for her. When you do this, you will quickly see her interest in you rise.