But there are some of you who do, which is why I decided to write about this today. There are two main reason on why a guy would be needy and insecure with woman. Number one, the man is treating her like she is a queen and can do no wrong. Number two, he doesn’t have any other women in his life, so he will constantly pursue that one woman.
Let’s talk about number one first, which is the one that most men do. What a lot of men do is they project their interest level on a woman, but her level of interest is nowhere close to being the same. How do I know that? I know that because I used to be guilty of doing this as well. With women, there is a steady climb to raise her level of interest for you.
This is especially true for the men who start off behind the 8 ball from the beginning. Giving compliments is another way to show that you are needy as well. Most women know how good they look, so you don’t have to constantly give her compliments. Women will also test you by telling you about other men just to see how insecure you are. If you start getting all butt hurt over the other men in her life, she will start to realize that you are insecure.
Now let’s talk about the second part of this, which is not having other women in your life. The best way to stay away from needy and insecure behavior is to have multiple women that you can talk too. Most men over pursue when it comes to a woman that he is really attracted too. So dealing with multiple women will give you that balance you need to not over pursue. That is why I tell men all the time that they need to womanize.
So remember kings, you should never be needy or insecure when it comes to women. The best approach is the steady one, which is to take your time and don’t put pressure on any women. If you follow what I say to do, you will be surprised at the results you will get.