KYWK 101: Am I Being Used?

For example, a woman can use you for money in a variety of ways. She will try to see if you can become the guy that when she runs into a problem financially, she can count on you to come through. If this is your girlfriend, that’s not a problem. But if you are just dating and she is asking for money, you have to address this issue head on.

The sex aspect of being used should be what every man who isn’t in a relationship strives for. Women have some men in their lives where all they want from him is sex. Sometimes, it can go into something more serious but most of the time it wont because she doesn’t view you that way. But from a man’s perspective, if you don’t have to give up no time or money and you are getting strictly sex, why complain?

But trust me, there are some men who get upset that the woman is just using them for sex. Our time is so valuable, which is why you have to realize when a woman is using you for it. There are woman who will let you take them out all the time, even though she knows nothing will ever develop between the two of you. She only agrees to go out because she is at home bored and it beats staying home on a Friday or Saturday night.

That’s why I say you have to make them ante up, because you will figure out very quickly if she is into you or not. So remember kings, there are multiple ways where a woman can use you. When women are single, they have a man for every need in their lives. Whether it’s emotionally, spiritually, sexually, women make sure they have it all covered. So you have to pay attention to what’s going on so you will know how to react to it.