First off, you always want to ask her what is her availability looks like so you can meet up. Once she tells you when she is available, you want to set a definite day, time and place. After she agrees to everything, you want to run the details by her one more time. For example, you would say to her, okay will meet at the taco bar on Friday at 8 P.M.
Now depending on her interest in you, things can get a little tricky. If her interest is high, she will agree to everything you guys discussed. But if she is on the fence, she might ask you to call on the day of the date to make sure nothing came up. If she does that, you take the offer of the table. The reason you do this is because you want to go out with someone that really wants to see you.
When a woman wants you to call the day before the date, there is a good chance that she is going to flake on you. So before she can even put you in that position, you just take the offer off the table. Once you take the offer away, you tell her to get in touch with you when she knows for sure that her schedule is clear.
Once you say that, you should never contact her until she reaches out to you. Two things are going to happen when you do this. She is either going to get in touch with you to set a definite date, or you won’t her from her again. Either way you win because if she reaches out, that means her interest level has went up due to you not agreeing to her terms.
If she doesn’t reach out, that means you dodge a bullet and won’t have to spend unnecessary time and money. So remember kings, setting definite dates seems simple, but a lot of men struggle with this. You don’t want to leave any doubt in her mind when you are setting up the date. It could be something so little that could ultimately make her flake out on you.