When us men get into relationships, we try to make sure our woman is taken care of. But you have to be very careful on how you accomplish this. There are a lot of men who put their woman first in their life, but don’t know why they are miserable. Because we are logical thinkers, we think that making her happy will make the relationship great.
But then you start to see that even though she is happy, you are miserable. You will start to get the feeling that she is taking the things you do for granted. On top of that, you will begin to notice that she isn’t that nice to you. When it gets to that point, that’s when you will start having resentment towards her.
For example, I was in this situation with my ex girlfriend a few years ago. My whole goal was to make her happy, but couldn’t understand why I felt miserable. This built up for a couple of months until I decided it was time to have a one on one conversation.
After telling her I felt about everything, the response I got from her was the best advice she every gave me. She told me that I should focus on making myself happy instead of trying to make her happy. At the time, that wasn’t what I wanted to hear, so our problems continued. I realized months later that she was right and have put my happiness first ever since.
So remember kings, always make sure that you put your happiness first in your relationship. Putting her first in your relationship will cause you to resent her in the future. The love and happiness that you put out will trickle down to your woman because she will be happy if you are.