We have been programmed to care about how our women feel and guys are use to terms like “happy wife, happy life” but what about us? Guys have to understand that women are always going to sell their betterment first because that’s what they feel like is most important. For you guys that are married or in a relationship, have you gotten to a point where she was happy but you were miserable?
I remember I was like that in my last relationship and even she told me that I need to focus on myself instead of her. I was so pissed when she told me that at the time, but I understand more now than ever. That’s why when a man puts himself first, women get bent out of shape because they are not use to this type of treatment. For you guys that are miserable right now, start putting yourself first in your marriage or relationship and see how things start to get better for you.
For example, I was in a four year relationship, which ended once I started to remember I had balls again. My ex was trying to figure herself out and really didn’t know what her next move was. Throughout the relationship I made her and her daughter happiness my priority. But as time went on, I started to notice that even though they were happy, I was feeling miserable. Add on to the fact that she didn’t have a filter when it came to her mouth. But as soon as I started to care more about me than her, I started to see the change in her.
She started to want more attention from me and her interested had skyrocketed. She is not an outlier, the majority of these women will respond the same way. So remember kings, you should come first before anything else. There will be people who will test you to see if they can knock you off your center. But once they see that they can’t do that, men respect you more and women are more attractive to you.